Why do we fall in love? Is there love at first sight?

Why do we fall in love? Is there love at first sight? Why do some people never forget the failure in relationship?

You were walking down the street when suddenly, he came out of the store and you fell in love with him at a glance, why?!?

The answer is simple. It all comes down to our understanding of how the mind works. If you are single and not in a relationship, your mind is constantly on the subconscious level looking for a partner. Even if you think that love does not matter to you, your mind will automatically fall in love with someone who meets your subconscious standards.

But why him?

Each of us has in our minds (at the subconscious level) a checklist of criteria set for the person we are going to fall in love with. If a person does not meet those criteria, he will be rejected and will not be your love partner, and you will only mention him as a friend. The items on your list are specific and go back to your values, beliefs, and past experiences.

For example, the first three lines of an individual checklist are as follows:

Case one: He must have a background similar to mine.

Case Two: Her Hair Must Be Blonde

(This person has always failed to attract blonde girls in her past life, which is why this person’s subconscious has put this criterion on her list to make up for her past failures).

Case three: This person must be attractive, assertive, and have high self-esteem

(this person has low self-esteem and, therefore, intends to choose complementary traits at the subconscious level)

With the above interpretations, if this person is not in a relationship and sees a very beautiful girl with black hair, he will most likely not fall in love with her. Because this person does not conform to his subconscious criteria.

People are often unaware of their subconscious criteria, and for this reason, they usually think of love as an unpredictable phenomenon that happens all at once, but the truth is that as soon as they become aware of their subconscious criteria, they realize that exactly Why they fell in love with a certain person.

When you become aware of your subconscious criteria, you will learn how to stop loving someone or making others fall in love with you.

Why do some people never forget that relationship after a love failure?

People who have beliefs such as having an eternal soul mate or being one will never be saved from the failure of love. These people think that there is only one person in this world by their standards. Because they are unaware of the fact that there are thousands of people around the world who meet their standards, they can never get rid of that love failure.

You can love someone who meets your subconscious criteria for as long as you can. That’s why you should never feel bad after breaking up a relationship. Because with more focus you can see that person, in many cases, has fallen short of your criteria. Or you can quickly find someone much closer to your criteria and fall in love with him even more than the first case.

Is there love at first sight?

Yes, there is! If someone has the criteria of your subconscious mind, you will fall in love with them quickly.

You may ask yourself, how can I find my criteria in a person without knowing him at first glance? The answer is simple, the criteria are determined by your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind, without knowing it, recognize his resemblance to your criteria by examining all the details, even how he walks and his face, etc. It may also be the same person as the person in your life you loved.

If your subconscious criteria depend only on the appearance of the person, you are much more likely to fall in love at a glance than someone who puts personality first.

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