In an article like “How to increase my self-confidence?” We talked about how to increase confidence.
In this article, we are going to tell you exactly how you can quickly increase your confidence in any field. Different people have low self-esteem on a variety of topics. For example, some people do not have confidence in driving, some have difficulty talking to the opposite sex, others have difficulty speaking in public, and some do not have enough confidence to solve a problem.
No matter which of these groups you belong to and in which area you have low self-confidence by reading this article you will be able to increase your self-confidence in anything.
Self Confidence
Self-confidence is one of the most valuable traits without which success is very difficult and its presence will give you a wonderful feeling. The following is a very simple definition of confidence:
Self-confidence means the ability to do what you want to do!
The important thing about self-confidence is that it has no general meaning. A dentist may have high self-esteem in his job, while the same person may have low self-esteem, for example, to speak in groups with high self-esteem.
That’s why for every subject, confidence is needed in the same subject. But how can you increase your confidence in anything?
Common and practical examples
Suppose you don’t have enough self-confidence to talk in a crowd, or communicate with a stranger on the street. What should you do?
- In this case, you must first break it down into smaller steps, and in fact, divide a large skill into smaller skills.
For example, to do this, you must first do the smallest thing that is a little difficult for you! For example, if you want to be able to speak in front of a large crowd, it’s best to do something in front of your family members that is a little difficult for you. Note that we said a little hard! Now that you’ve done this for a while, make things a little harder! For example, this time talk to a small group of friends and make things a little harder! You will soon find that you have gained enough confidence to speak in large groups!
In fact, to increase your self-confidence, the important thing is to be able to identify smaller steps towards the main goal and make things a little harder.
Suppose you have trouble communicating with others (strangers), in a gathering, and in a ceremony.
- Perhaps the first step is to ask a few people what time it is! The next step may be to stand next to a few people and say a humorous sentence aloud, and when the attention of others is drawn, gradually open the discussion and….
The important thing in gaining self-confidence is to start small in the relevant subject and gradually make the situation more difficult. You will soon see that your confidence in the subject has increased.
