Everything humans do is necessary to satisfy one of these six needs.
Everything you do in life is for satisfying one of the needs we will address in this article. Understanding these needs is very important. Because, for example, in your daily relationships or love relationships, not paying attention to these needs can cause dissatisfaction on both sides. If these needs are not met, they will cause problems and annoyances, and also, not meeting these needs in society will lead to more crimes day by day.
Personality Needs
❤ Reliability / Comfort
The feeling that everything is under your control, the feeling of security, knowing what awaits you to avoid pain and create joy in your life. This need is a deep need that is extremely strong and determines how risky you can be in life. The more certainty you need and the more you focus on it, the less risk you can incur in work, investment and even a love relationship and so on.
🧡 Uncertainty! / Unpredictability / diversity
We all hate a movie that we know everything about. This need is in contrast to the first need, and somehow, if everything is one hundred percent definite, life will be boring for us. So you have to consider the variety. We all love to be surprised. Of course, surprises that are suitable for us, otherwise no one likes to be surprised by an accident! So it’s important to spice up your life, for example, in a long-term relationship.
💛 Feeling important and special
All human beings need to feel important and others need them.
In fact, we can say: Need to be needed!
Some by progressing and getting a degree, some by getting a tattoo on their skin, some by getting a gun in their hand and committing a crime and so on. Many crimes are committed to fill this gap. Some by spending money. Some by raising money! And…Some virtual networks, such as Instagram, have succeeded precisely in meeting this need.
💚 Communication and love needs
Loving and communicating is another human need. This need is very important and can lead to the development or even destruction of a person’s dreams. Some meet this need with intimacy, some with prayer, and some with friendship or even a walk in nature. Some people can even meet this need by having a pet.
The first four needs are personality needs. Everyone finds a way to meet these needs. Some work harder, some face a problem and solve it, and some even make up stories that justify their failure. But the next two needs are spiritual needs that are pure and not everyone can face them.
Spiritual Needs
💙 Growing up
If you are not growing, if your relationship is not growing, if your account balance (no matter how much money you currently have) is not growing, no matter how many people like you and how many opportunities you have, you will not be satisfied in real life. And the reason for growth, according to Tony Robbins, is that as we grow, we gain the power to forgive.
💜 Helping and forgiving
The secret of life is to forgive. Life is not about me. It is about us. What is the first thing you do when you hear good news? You quickly pick up the phone and convey that good feeling to others. The power of forgiveness only grows when you move away from constantly thinking about yourself and your personal interests and considering the circumstances and feelings of others. An unconditional gift that comes from an inner growth, power and love.💕
