This article focuses entirely on the importance of healing inner wounds. Because unhealed inner wounds will harm you and your life without you realizing it, until you identify and heal these wounds, you will not learn how they affect your life! And it can be regrettable because no one but you will ever be able to help resolve these wounds and the effects of the disaster on your life.
Unhealed inner wounds tragically manipulate your perception of the world around you and others.
A person beaten by any hand since childhood will gradually face an unhealed internal wound that makes him see any other hand as dangerous even in adulthood, even if it is to caress. He imagines that this hand has come to beat him and shows his love violently. It is painful that, in reality, as long as a human being, an animal, or any other creature, has wounds from the inside, it does not matter what you do to him because all his perceptions and attitudes to the world and you will be as if you are hurting them.
Inner wounds are dangerous
Your mind can create inner wounds in the course of your life and for various reasons, and the harm these wounds bring to your life is very sad because they destructively change your perceptions. And when your mind alters and manipulates your attitude and point of view, it doesn’t matter what the truth is anymore. Because the interpretation of the truth about others and the outside world by you will always be black and negative and based on the same inner wounds, pay attention that when we talk about a wound that changes your attitude, this event is not a joke or a simple thing!
Unfortunately, it is a huge disaster! Attitude is like glasses and something that determines the truth you experience and understand every moment. For this reason, it is tough for someone whose attitude has changed to know that the truth is something else and what he sees and interprets is not true !!
Some examples
- With someone who others constantly mock, you cannot joke in the slightest way because an inner wound in his existence makes any joke be taken as a mockery or humiliation.
- A person with bad memories and failures and the experience of being a victim of financial scams throughout his life may feel that everyone is showing off or that everyone is a fraud.
- A person who has always been under control and pressure from people will perceive all the behaviors of others in the future as just controlling behavior.
- Someone who does not have a sense of power or self-confidence from within will perceive the most negligible behavior of others as insulting or humiliating.
And alas, you can give no help to a person who has inner wounds (which he is unaware of) because he “really” experiences the world like this! Wounds have such power! Right now, take a pair of black sunglasses and put them on your eyes and see if you can see the world as clearly as before! Believe me. You can’t unless you take the defective glasses and crush them under your feet! We are not kidding! Inner wounds change the reality experienced by the person, and it’s like a sad and big vision error that can only be saved by being alert. Of course, only a handful of people have the power to protect themselves from old wounds because few people realize the importance of vigilance.
Be conscious of your wounds
The saddest part is that if one is not aware of his inner wounds, these wounds will manipulate his perceptions and understanding of the entire outside world, and the behavior of others will also be different for him from the existing reality. And if you understand the depth of this tragedy, you will know how big a disaster is. Wounds can create a vision error for you that you will never get rid of, and as a result, you will ruin your whole life with these attitudes.
Only someone will be able to be saved from the destructive effects of these inner wounds, who first becomes aware and sees how the inner wounds have changed his perception of life. We must say that this is not an easy task!! It requires precision, special attention, and avoiding prejudice and ego.
Important point
The saddest point is that when a new and unpleasant event or occurrence (which is similar to the same old wound) touches an unhealed wound again, this wound reopens. Furthermore, the corresponding negative view and attitude or, to be precise, the tunnel intensifies the relevant reality. And all this happens without the person’s knowledge, which is why you can give no help to the person, and all of this is why the most complex kind of life is living with people who are sure that what they feel, interpret, and summarize is pure truth.
As a result, their current perceptions and understanding of others and life have temporarily (or perhaps permanently) been destructively changed. And again, this is why we say that growing and knowing more within yourself is extremely important (even in a love relationship or relationship with others). If you neglect it for a moment and lose consciousness, it will be a disaster for your life. You will find that the whole path of your life will change.
