Many people are trying to get stronger
This issue is significant for men because they like to be more attractive by becoming stronger. However, the more they try to play the role of being manly and strong, the weaker they seem. But how can you become stronger?
Show your weaknesses to become stronger
All people, especially men, try to be rugged and attractive to look more muscular, and it is precisely this effort to become stronger that causes more weakness. When you “try” to become something else, you implicitly tell your subconscious mind that you are not that thing. And the effect of implicit messages is much stronger.
Accept your feelings
If you pay close attention, strong people show their weakness. And by doing this, they don’t let that weakness become their owner. Instead, they become the owner of their weakness. For example, when an adult shows himself weak in front of a young child and plays the role of an animal or pretends to be a failure, The main reason is that he feels strong and valuable from the inside, so he is not afraid to show his inner feelings or pretend to be weak.
A strong person is not afraid to declare behind the microphone at the beginning of his speech that “I feel a lot of stress in front of this big crowd!” However, a weak person constantly hides this feeling and tries to hide his weaknesses from the surrounding world.
If you want to become more masculine and attractive, or if you’re going to become mentally stronger as a woman, don’t run away from your weaknesses. Even men make those negative feelings not increase by owning their vulnerable emotions.
In fact, for example, for a man in today’s society, showing weakness, crying, behaving like a woman, and even being afraid and expressing negative feelings is much more complicated than acting like a man, and it requires more courage and will make him stronger. A strong man is not afraid of announcing his fears and weaknesses. Because the whole society considers anxiety to be bad for a man, he will be promoting his strength and masculine attractiveness by telling his weaknesses.
When a man powerfully says, “I’m afraid of cockroaches!” he displays a feminine trait. And this, subconsciously, makes him look more manly in the eyes of others and makes him feel more powerful. However, a weak man hides everything!
