Many people these days question the existence of unconditional Love.
Unconditional Love is a kind of Love in which you love someone just because of who he or she is, not because of anything else. Wealth, cars, and money can be why many people start Love, but in this case, you can never call it unconditional Love.
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From a psychological point of view, unconditional Love is rare or almost non-existent. In fact, from a psychological point of view, in Love, people try to satisfy their unconscious needs.
A man with dark skin may like a woman with light skin, and a woman who lacks self-confidence tends to attract a man with high self-confidence.
This explains how complementarity can lead to conditional Love. Returning to our main question, does such Love exist?
To understand Unconditional Love, you must realize Conditional Love.
Suppose a boy consistently fails to talk to girls appropriately and thinks he is not desirable.
Now that this boy is growing up, he will most likely be attracted to the first girl to give him a sense of worth. This is a perfect example of conditional Love that shows how an unmet need from childhood can affect your future partner’s choice.
This is why many psychologists say that unconditional Love does not exist. You may never fall in Love if you have no unmet needs or if you have no desire to make up for something in your life.
From a Psychological point of view, SUCH Love’s existence is in doubt.
People who say that there is unconditional Love give examples such as that some children love their parents or that parents love their children, But when you look at this claim, you will find many people who hate their parents because their parents mistreated them.
It is impossible for a child to love parents who has been severely abuse them, or at least very rarely. This means that even in cases where there seems to be unconditional Love, a kind of conditional Love prevails. A mother loves her son because he belongs to her and he is her son.
However, in this article, we tried to say that such Love does not exist, which is all psychologists have achieved to date.